Recent social media trends have seen children as young as elementary and middle school mimicking moaning sounds, often for "laughs" or to follow viral challenges.

Sexuality is fluid, especially at 13. She may be bisexual, pansexual, or lesbian with a past “comphet” (compulsory heterosexual) crush. Her moaning is the sound of cognitive dissonance—her past self and present self not aligning.

You are not a problem to be solved. You are a story still being written.

With love, A grown-up who once moaned too